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Instant Pot Lentil Tacos

I am always on the hunt for recipes that our whole family can eat. With conflicting food allergies, meal planning can be tricky, but we have found a lot of things that work for everybody. I'm also working on ways I can add in more nutritional value, so this recipe is a great one.

We like Mexican food. It's pretty much all Donny's family ate when he was growing up. One of the first foods Raya willingly ate more than one taste of was beans. As much as we love beans, they take a while to cook from their dried state and even with the Instant Pot, I feel like it takes a long time to make beans. We tried lentils a few years ago and holy moly, lentils are AWESOME. They have a similar flavor and texture to dried beans (important for a child with oral sensory issues & strong food preferences!) but they're smaller and cook in a fraction of the time. They're very nutritious, with about 15 grams of fiber, 17 grams of protein, and less than a gram of fat per cup of cooked l…

Lessons in Life Skills: Food Labels

Recently I've been reflecting back on how different life is now than it was when Raya was a baby or toddler. The "On This Day" feature of Facebook is somewhat of a mixed blessing. On one hand, it reminds me how quickly my babies (none of whom are babies anymore) are growing up. At the same time, it gives me an opportunity to remember more poignantly the way things used to be. I really can't do justice to some of the struggles of her earlier years other than to say it was hard in every facet of motherhood. Today, it reminded me that there was a whole year of Raya's infancy during which she ate and drank virtually nothing by mouth, and relied solely on nutrition and hydration through her feeding tube. It is still hard to wrap the mind around the idea of a child that young being so averse to taking in anything by mouth that they would choose not to, but having seen her experience so much vomiting and relentless episodes of violent retching, I could hardly blame her.…

Thriving

If I had to choose one word to describe Raya at this stage of her life, it would be THRIVING. In nearly every way, she is in the best condition of her entire life right now. Medically, she is more stable than ever. She is tolerating larger bolus feeds than ever over a shorter time period than ever. She is eating a wider variety of food than at any other point in her life in spite of her food allergies, and she's able to eat more food at a time than at any other point in her life. And more willing.

A few weeks ago, she told me one morning that her tummy had been hurting when the school nurse or her aide connect her for her second feed of the day and that she hadn't said anything to the nurse about it because the way her tummy felt confused her. We were confused too. She had a hard time describing it because it wasn't like any pain she's used to feeling, and the pain got better after the feed started, not worse, unlike when she's had trouble tolerating her first fee…